Reality Check, I spilled some Juice

30s Knocking

Hi there 👋🏽,

I honestly can’t believe we’re here already, happppy New Monthhhhhh 🎉🥳. September feels like it just sneaked up on us, and I’m sitting here asking myself, when did 2025 even start? Omo!

So, how was your August? For me, it was a mix of sweet and sour, one of those months that didn’t fully make sense in the moment, but looking back, I can see little threads of meaning. Spiritually, I’ve been stretched. I’ve had days where I felt close to God’s whispers, and days where I wondered if He was silent on purpose just to see me grow. Mentally, I’ve had to learn to slow down, to not let the rush of life convince me that I’m behind, because I’m definitely not, I’m just “Right On Time”.

Physically, I’ve been on this weight loss journey. It’s not just about the scale; it’s about feeling lighter, stronger, and more beautiful in my own body. Some days I do well, other days not so much, but I’m learning grace along the way. Financially, well, that’s been its own story. Earlier this year, I fell into debt, and honestly, it has humbled me in ways I didn’t expect. I’m still working to pay it off, praying for God’s mercy and wisdom. Sometimes people look at me and assume I have it all figured out _ like I have money tucked away somewhere _ but truthfully, I’m learning to believe I’m wealthy in more ways than one, even when the numbers don’t agree (more like a psychic thing).

And then, love life… oh boy. Where do I even begin? I started this year in a relationship, and when that ended, I thought I’d just focus on myself. But then came a season of meeting people — some nice, some really not-so-nice, and one who was a little too obsessed (I honestly felt like I had a stalker at one point). It’s been crazy, confusing, sometimes funny, sometimes scary. Right now, I can’t even say I know what I’m doing in that area. But it’s part of life, right? Becoming means figuring things out, even when they’re messy. At this point, I believe everything will fall into pleasant places for me; I can’t even stress it.

And now we’re stepping into the last quarter of 2025. The way this year dey run so, I just dey ask myself: What am I going to make of these last few months? What am I trying to build, to strengthen?

And you, what about you? Are you signing up for courses, certifications, or maybe just choosing consistency in one area of your life? Are you learning to rest, to dream, or to stretch yourself in new ways?

For me, this September carries even more weight, because on the 13th, I’ll be turning 30. 🎂✨

For two years, I had this list of things I wanted to achieve by 30 😄: the career milestones, the financial goals, even where I thought I’d be in love and in life. But as the day draws near, I realize something: none of those lists matter if there isn’t clarity and purpose guiding me. Entering my 30s feels like stepping into a new chapter with open hands, ready to embrace what God has for me, not just what I thought I should have achieved.

Writing this today and looking back, I’ve come a long way. I’ve been able to create some communities and contribute my share of impact to society.

Here are some of them:

💫 The “Weight Loss” eBook – To celebrate my birthday 🎉, I’m running a discount. Instead of ₦3,000, you can get it for just ₦2,000. It’s my way of saying thank you for being here with me on this journey. Get the eBook

💫 The Bible Cycle Group – Something close to my heart. We read the Bible together, post prayers, talk about life, and sometimes fast and pray. It’s a safe, faith-filled space for anyone who wants to grow spiritually. 👉 Join here

💫 My YouTube Channel – I’ve been quietly preparing something exciting. If your career path is leaning toward digital skills and computing, you’ll want to be tuned in. I’ll be sharing practical tools, tips, and maybe even some surprises. Go ahead and subscribe now so you don’t miss what’s coming. 👉 SteeTalk Tech & AI

💫 Weight Loss Community – More than just a place to sell my eBook, this is a circle of encouragement. We’ll cheer each other on, swap tips, and keep going even on the hard days. If you’ve been looking for accountability, come join us.
👉 WLC

So that’s where I am, in the middle of faith and finances, love and lessons, work and wellness. My birthday is just around the corner, and while I don’t know exactly how it will unfold, I’m stepping into 30 with excitement, hope, and a heart open to God’s direction.

But enough about me — how are you really? How was your August? How are you doing mentally, spiritually, physically, financially? What do you want the last quarter of 2025 to hold for you? Hit reply and let me know; I’d love to hear from you.

With love,
Stee 💛